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Change In Life Life has taken an unexpected turn and its for good this time. I am married now. Have a job that pays much more than I could imagine and I rented and decorated a house all by myself with nice furnitures and appliances. I even got a 2 wheeler, my middle class dream is coming true. But there is something better than this. Now I am wise enough to realise,all these are my illousion, everything is temporary . All my materialistic needs will never end and I will never be completely happy.  Things will never be perfect and that's okay. As these are all temporary , only I am the truth. Ahm Brahmasmi! 

21 Lessons By Robin Sharma From 2021

  1.  F ew things are as valuable as your family being healthy, safe and sound.  2.  During times that we cannot go outside we are blessed with the opportunity to go within. 3.  Messy periods reveal how strong you’ve made yourself (through your routines and daily practices). They also pinpoint all the internal work still left to do. 4.  Beauty exists in the simplest of things. And that once we commit to finding it, it always appears. 5.  A day with a great book is better than a month fooling with social media. 6.  In dark moments our world needs you to shine more brightly. 7.  Every time we complain or make an excuse, we degrade our power. And disrespect our genius. 8.  Ee can be most creative when our carefully constructed plans fall apart. Living in the question instead of in the answer can bring the most unexpected artistic and spiritual rewards. 9.  Simple and fresh food—skillfully prepared—is the eighth wonder of the world....

Notes From The Kreutzer Sonata - Tolstoy

“The emancipation of woman is not to be effected in the public courts or in the chamber of deputies, but in the sleeping chamber. Prostitution is to be combated, not in the houses of ill-fame, but in the family. They free woman in the public courts and in the chamber of deputies, but she remains an instrument. Teach her, as she is taught among us, to look upon herself as such, and she will always remain an inferior being. Either, with the aid of the rascally doctors, she will try to prevent conception, and descend, not to the level of an animal, but to the level of a thing; or she will be what she is in the great majority of cases,—sick, hysterical, wretched, without hope of spiritual progress.”

Shittiest day of my life

21st Aug/2021 -failing in driving license test -fight with coworker in office -interviewing gay candidate -icecream eaten by brother

Ignored

Have you ever said something and saw the words vanishing in thin air? Or worse, no one asked you anything at all. You are invited in a meeting but you have no role to play there. No update to give,no questions asked. But you need to be present in that meeting every single time. What a waste of time and energy. I have faced this before and facing it now. Silence is much more powerful than words. Your silence  adds pressure on you to be prepared for the worse,to look for alternatives. You crave stability and you are looking forward to grow in an organisation and you are looking for a mentor. You want to contribute but no one asks you to. You expect some mentoring but all you see is senior teammates fighting for little more authority,trying to create more dependency. Trying to cut you off. You get adjusted with the silence,the pressure, the sound of fan and random noise in meeting. The discussion is nothing but random noise to you because you are invited in the meeting but not involve...